Monday, December 3, 2012

1 Piece Out Of 5,000

I'm currently doing a bible study on one of my greatest weaknesses - prayer.  The study I'm doing is called "Living A Praying Life" by Jennifer Kennedy Dean.  Prayer has always been a struggle with me for many reasons.  Not having enough time, forgetting to do it when I do have down-time, feeling awkward praying out loud by myself or if someone else is in the house with me....etc.  We all make excuses at some point, but I truly think that prayer is part of a strong foundation of having a close and personal relationship with God and living a blessed and fulfilled life according to His purpose.

The most recent teaching that reconfirmed my ideas about prayer, and I found encouraging, was how prayer plays such an important role in every step of our life even when you think your prayer isn't being answered or is being ignored.  Dean's example is this- imagine that you are handed 1 piece of a 5,000 piece puzzle.  Would you be able to guess what the puzzle was a picture of based on that one small piece?  Chances are slim that you would. Think of your life in the same way.  If something isn't going how you expected it to go, it is just one small piece of God's plan for your life.  He has intricately weaved all of our live's plans together, and he knows what is best for us.  Trust Him with your life, be patient, and wait to see where God gets you.

What is an example of a time in your life where you thought God was ignoring or denying your prayers, but in time you looked back to see that He was blessing you above and beyond what you had ever imagined?

Schloss Hurlach (Hurlach Castle)
One small example in my life from way back was after high school I really wanted to go to college in Germany.  It was a YWAM discipleship school in a castle outside of Munich.  I've always had a very strong desire to live in Germany (still do!) and I thought that this was my time to do it.  Besides, I was going there to learn more about God, church, discipleship, so why wouldn't God help me get there?  I got all the necessary papers in order, loans figured out, and all of the needed references....except for one.  That one (my pastor's!) never made it to them and I didn't get in.  I was so heart broken and couldn't understand how that wasn't part of God's plan for my life and how my pastor couldn't get the papers in!  This caused some resentment and bitterness, but I did get over it.

Looking back, I'm glad that I didn't go.  Because of the path I took I ended up getting a good degree, didn't need to take out a student loan, met my husband (man of my dreams!!!) and am now in a job that I love.  Even though there have been struggles and hard times, I'm so happy and blessed to be where I'm at right now and I know that I wouldn't be here now if I would have went to the YWAM school.

There are so many other life examples I could write about, but I'll just leave you with that one.  Remember- Jesus told us to "Have faith in God" - Mark 11:22.  As Dean says in her study - "When you place your faith in an outcome, you will often be disappointed.  When you put your faith in God, you will never be disappointed."  Don't put a period where God has put a comma.  He will always have more to bless you with if you let Him.

Monday, November 19, 2012

Creating a dog-friendly yard

Our American Bulldog - Tug
After much frustration with having a SUPER small back yard (think housing development where you can see in everyone's yards from your window) and a bigger dog who does need to go potty and therefor not being able to use our back yard at all I finally began researching ways to fix this problem.  Some things I was looking for:
  • A good spot that was out of the way for us, but easily accessible for our dog.
  • Easy to clean up and maintain
  • Drained well (I live in rainy Washington, so LOTS of rain)
  • Reduced the odor
After lots of looking around online, I decided to go with a sand base, topped with river pebbles.  These are a little larger than pea gravel and would allow the water to drain well and would be easy to hose off and keep clean.  It would also be fairly easy to poop-scoop regularly. 

I started by finding the best location in our yard for his area.  I dug down about an inch or two, also trying to level out the area as it was pretty sloped.   I purchased some cedar edging and placed it around the borders to keep the filler material in place better.  Next, I poured in sand, then topping it with the rock. 

After laying the rock
We need to still add some more rock as my calculations were a bit off, but it's a good start.  Our next task was to re-train our dog to go potty just in this area.  Our dog is super sensitive so we had to be careful in how we trained him to go over there so he wouldn't be scared. (such a big baby)  Reading other blogs gave us a good idea of how to do this.  We would take him out at first on a leash when he had to go.  Each time he went potty we would get super excited, praise him, and give him a treat.  He got the peeing down really well, but for some reason did NOT want to poop there.  I do have to say, two months later he still does not want to poop there, so I'm not sure what that's all about or how to change it.  He knows that's his potty area, but he is stubborn. 

One thing I may change - the rock is a hard surface, so liquid does bounce off (pee ends up on his leg sometimes).  I'm thinking of adding bark or something, even though I absolutely despise bark. 

All in all, I love having him potty in just one area. Our grass is growing back, and is green!  I'm looking forward to this summer actually being able to walk around bare-foot in our yard and not worrying about keeping kiddos out of the grass. 

Thursday, August 23, 2012

Becoming Fully Devoted

I am starting a new bible study.  I will admit it has been a while since I have gotten into the word and I have let go of my daily time with God.  I'm ready to get back in the swing of things again and give God his rightful place in my life.  This goes along with my priorities post I did a few weeks ago.  God 1st, husband 2nd, then all things falling into place after that.  I encourage you to read that post so you can begin mapping out your priorities as well.

These are my notes from today's study.

Question: 
Why is it hard to change a specific action/habit if we aren't totally devoted to God?

My thoughts:
I think that when we aren't completely devoted to God we get lost in the day-to-day, in the "stuff" that we "have to do".  We lose sight of who God is (creator), what He has blessed us with (life, shelter, friends, job, purpose), and the very basic fact that He created us AND loves us!  He loves us so much that He sacrificed His son. He allowed His on to be tortured and betrayed by the very race that He created just so that the bondage of sin would be broken....without this happening we would never be worthy enough to go into His kingdom!

Once we recognize the reality of all this and internalize what He truly did for us, will we be motivated to make changes in our life that would please Him.

"Fear God and obey His commands, for this is the duty of every person." - Ecc. 12:13

"Your heavenly Father already knows your needs, and He will give you all you need from day to day if you live for Him and make the Kingdom of God your primary concern." - Matt. 6:33

My Actions:
1. Focus on Him daily (spend time in the word, prayer)
2. Learn to hear His voice (by spending time with Him!)
3. Take care to follow His commandments better

How do you work on your devotion to God?  What helps you keep Him a priority?  I would love to hear your thoughts!

Monday, July 30, 2012

PCOS: A Handbook for Beginners

I wanted to put together something for those women out there that have recently been diagnosed with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS).  I know that that when you first learn that you have it it can be very overwhelming trying to find accurate data, knowing what to do to treat it, and what worked for others.  Here's a good starting point for you to learn about all the different facets of treating it naturally and getting your body balanced naturally.

For support, education, and to talk to others with PCOS, check out www.powerupforpcos.com or my facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/powerupwashington.


Definition of PCOS

Taken from WebMD:
“Polycystic ovary syndrome (say "pah-lee-SIS-tik OH-vuh-ree SIN-drohm") is a problem in which a woman’s hormones are out of balance. It can cause problems with your periods and make it difficult to get pregnant. PCOS may also cause unwanted changes in the way you look. If it is not treated, over time it can lead to serious health problems, such as diabetes and heart disease.

Polycystic ovary syndrome (or PCOS) is common, affecting as many as 1 out of 15 women. Often the symptoms begin in the teen years. Treatment can help control the symptoms and prevent long-term problems.”

***A note for you- it is actually now known that PCOS affects anywhere from 1 out of 5 to 10 women.

Causes

The cause of PCOS is not known, but is suspected to be passed down genetically from either the mother OR father.  It is also thought that environmental factors may play a role in PCOS as well.  Much more testing and studies need to be done to pinpoint the cause(s) of PCOS.

Common Symptoms

It is important to note that each woman with PCOS does not have ALL of these symptoms, usually a few of them together.  I have also witnessed some symptoms can come and go depending on your diet and exercise routine.  These are the most commonly known symptoms:
  • Insulin-resistance
  • Weight gain, difficulty losing weight
  • Male-pattern hair growth on the face and body.
  • Thinning hair on the scalp
  • Acne
  • Irregular periods (including complete absence of periods or continuous bleeding)
  • Infertility
  • Cysts on the ovaries (viewable through ultrasound)
  • Above normal Testosterone Hormone levels (blood test)
  • Vitamin D deficiency (blood test)
  • Depression
  • Anxiety

Vitamins & Supplements

Before starting any supplement regiment, be sure to speak with your doctor about what you plan on taking.  Also, what I have learned from experience, be sure you are also taking a quality multi-vitamin as these have a majority of what your body needs to work better and most likely includes many of the recommended dosages of the supplements listed below.

Fish Oil

Taking a quality, organic fish oil is perhaps one of the first and most important changes you could do to combat many common symptoms of PCOS.  Since PCOS is inflammatory in nature, the Omega 3’s in fish oil act as a natural anti-inflammatory.  A good one to try is Carlson Fish Oil found at many health supplement stores. 

Benefits:


  •         Anti-Inflammatory
  •         Assists in regulating hormones and monthly cycle
  •         Reduces risk of coronary heart disease
  •         May help relieve hypertension/high blood pressure
  •         Lowers triglycerides that commonly indicates insulin problems
  •         May aid in reducing depression

Vitamin D

Many women with PCOS suffer from Vitamin D deficiency.  We normally receive Vitamin D from the sun, hence it’s nickname of the “Sunshine Vitamin”.  Optimal Vitamin D levels are important for improved fertility, weight control, liver health, reducing insulin resistance and avoiding pancreas exhaustion. It also helps to prevent bone loss and osteoporosis and improves breast health. [3] Vitamin D, in conjunction with Calcium supplements has been known to help women with PCOS. [4]  If you have PCOS, be sure to get your Vitamin D levels checked!

Benefits:

  • Regulation of menstrual cycle
  • Reversal of insulin resistance
  • Reduced chance of osteoporosis/bone loss

Magnesium

Magnesium is another nutrient that is known to be in low levels in those with PCOS. Magnesium should be taken in conjunction with Calcium.  The recommended daily allowance for magnesium established by the Institute of Medicine of the National Academy of Sciences is 310mg per day for women ages 19 to 31 and 320mg for women over age 31.

Benefits:

  • Helps balance blood sugar levels

Apple Cider Vinegar (raw, fermented)

Apple Cider Vinegar helps in so many parts of your body including skin, digestion, insulin resistance, and more.  It has always been a part of old-world remedies for many ailments and does help those with PCOS maintain their insulin levels.  I take 1 Tablespoon in about 8 ounces of water each morning with my breakfast. 

Benefits:

  • Promotes weight loss
  • Reduces sugar cravings
  • Aids in digestion — ACV helps stimulate your stomach acid which aids in the digestion of protein and fats. Healthy digestion is important for overall health and weight control.
  • Weight control — Apple cider vinegar speeds up metabolism especially when taken regularly before meals and if used with a sensible diet and exercise program. ACV has also been proven to help burn fat!
  • Helps prevent dandruff, itching scalp, baldness (common with PCOS!!)
  • Helps maintain healthy skin
  • Restores your body’s pH balance — Your blood is supposed to be slightly alkaline, but poor diet and lifestyle choices harm that pH balance. As your blood becomes acidic, the stage is set for illness. Acidity has also been shown to affect fertility. Women who have hostile cervical mucus have also been shown to have a higher acidity in their body. This is essential for those of you trying to conceive as ACV helps restore your body’s pH.

Chromium Picolinate (Chelated)

Chromium is a well-known supplement to aid in balancing insulin levels for those with PCOS and Diabetes.  A deficiency in this mineral can directly lead to insulin-resistance. If you are taking insulin or an insulin sensitizer such as metformin, chromium supplementation could reduce your blood sugar below the desired level.

Benefits:

  • Controls cravings, reduces hunger
  • Balances insulin levels
  • May reduce triglycerides and total cholesterol while improving HDL "good" cholesterol

Cinnamon

Yep, that’s right, I’m saying that plain ole cinnamon really can help control your sugar cravings and assist with balancing glucose!  Mix it into your coffee grounds, oatmeal, and other snacks throughout the day.  I usually have at least ½ tsp each day.

Things to Avoid

Eating a clean diet is essential in maintaining a healthy lifestyle with PCOS.  Next time you wonder whether or not your snack or meal is suitable, ask yourself if your great grandmother would have recognized the food.  A good example – Cheetos or Doritos (is neon orange powdered cheese really natural?)

Processed Foods

Processed foods are basically anything that is pre-packaged and ready to eat.  Think Hamburger Helper, frozen dinners, pop tarts, and anything else that has been processed at a factory and preserved so that it will last on a shelf for months or even years.  Our bodies react better to a more natural diet void from preservatives, pesticides and man-made ingredients. 

Pesticides

Women with PCOS already have a hormone imbalance and pesticides directly interfere with the re-balancing of our hormones.  Why do pesticides interfere with our hormone balance?  They contain what is called Xenoestrogens, which are chemical-based.  These look and act like our body’s natural hormones and will bind to our hormones causing extras to be hanging out in our body since they have no where else to go and keeping them from doing their job. 
You may be thinking that just because you don’t live on a farm that you are safe from pesticides, but the fact is that most of the produce that you buy in the store is riddled with it.  I encourage you to start switching to organic produce whenever possible.  Here’s a list of the “Dirty Dozen”- the top 12 pesticide contaminated foods that you should always buy organic:

DIRTY DOZEN:
  1. Apples
  2. Celery
  3. Sweet Bell Pepper
  4. Peaches
  5. Strawberries
  6. Nectarines – imported
  7. Grapes
  8. Spinach
  9. Lettuce
  10. Cucumbers
  11. Blueberries – domestic
  12. Potatoes

CLEAN 15: (these are lowest in pesticide levels)

  1. Onions
  2. Sweet Corn
  3. Pineapples
  4. Avocado
  5. Cabbage
  6. Sweet Peas
  7. Asparagus
  8. Mangoes
  9. Eggplant
  10. Kiwi
  11. Cantaloupe – domestic
  12. Sweet Potatoes
  13. Grapefruit
  14. Watermelon
  15. Mushrooms

High Fructose Corn Syrup

HFCS is corn syrup that has gone through a chemical process to convert glucose to fructose.  It is used in many foods a sweetener.  Fructose goes directly to the liver, which then turns it into fat.  Since women with PCOS tend to have higher obesity rates and a harder time keeping weight off, it’s a good idea to stay away from anything that can counter your efforts.

Agave Nectar

This is touted as being all natural, being that it does come from a plant.  Unfortunately, it is very highly processed like high fructose corn syrup is.  It is also not made from the sap of the agave plant as you would think. It is actually taken from the bulb, which is primarily a starch (like rice and corn).  To get this starchy extract into what we see on the store shelves, it is put through a chemical process that changes the starch into a high-fructose syrup. Once it undergoes this process, it ends up containing a higher fructose content than the high fructose corn syrup.

Simple Carbohydrates

This includes baked goods (cookies, cakes, muffins, etc), white flours, white breads, white rice.  Since PCOS is directly linked to insulin resistance, these simple carbohydrates turn to sugar very quickly and cause the ups and downs of your moods and cravings. 

Artificial Flavors & Colors

Anything that lists artificial colors or flavors added, or has dyes listed in the ingredients list.  These are man-made and can interfere with your body’s natural balance. 

Artificial Sweeteners

There are many artificial sweeteners out on the market today that are NOT naturally made.  That’s right, sweeteners like Splenda, aspartame or sucralose are actually man-made and can wreak havoc on your body by causing you to crave MORE sweets and carby foods, put you in a brain-fog, cause gas and bloating, joint pain.  I know from first-hand experience from using Splenda that it can cause brain-fog and fatigue.  Once I switched to sugar and primarily Stevia (this is from a plant, not a lab!) my mind was clear again and the fatigue lessened.

If you aren’t convinced yet Aspartame, once it’s digested into the body, turns into Methanol (poisonous!), which then the body turns into Formaldehyde.  This excess of formaldehyde can irreversibly bind to our DNA.  


Next up will be more about diet and exercise, so stay tuned!

Sunday, July 29, 2012

Life Priorities Are Vital To a Happy Life

Recently I've been learning about life priorities.  Here's a good story that displays the concept I've been working on in my life:
The Mayonnaise Jar and Two Cups of Coffee
When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began,
he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things--your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions--and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.

The sand is everything else--the small stuff. "If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first--the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked.

It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."
How often does life's little activities, chores, obligations get in the way of your happiness, or get in the way of the relationships that should matter most.  When's the last time you went on a date with your spouse?  Or had a "girl's night" with your bestie?  Spent time in the Word or in Prayer?  I wasn't very happy with my answers to those so I spent some time to actually map out my priorities on my computer using a fun little tool - MindNode.  Here's what I started out with:

Now that the basics are mapped out I know that first comes my relationship with God.  I need to make sure that I am devoting time to Him and His Word.  Next comes my marriage- making sure that I spend quality time with Jacob, letting him know that he's important and taking care of his needs.  Once those two are in order I know that so much stress will be relieved, home life will be better and that will allow me to focus on everything else- quality time with family, friends, and will reciprocate down to my career, serving, and my Power Up group. 

I encourage you to spend some time to map out your priorities.  Get specific, write down goals, think of where you want to be in 6 months, a year, 5 years with all aspects of your life.  Once you know where you want to be it'll be easy to figure out the steps to get there!